Love Life

Let's call this the story of the untroubled times. Let's imagine a boy, late teens, just out of school, fresh into college. For the sake of anonymity lets just call him VT, hmmm? He is living the good life, enjoying every bit of college and the myriad possibilities of fun and intoxication it promises. Exploring life, and as yet unspoilt by the harsh realities of having to work for a living.

This boy, then, one beautiful August morning sees this girl. Unassuming, confident, slightly aloof. And beautiful. Hmm, he is intrigued. Distracted even. He has the next party to plan, video games to play, books to read, friends to meet, and study if need be; in short, no time for frivolities and yet... he is drawn to the girl. Yes, he is most definitely intrigued. He tries to strike a conversation but our boy is kind of shy too. I say 'kind of', because he does manage to speak to her. It takes a few days but speak to her, he does. They strike up an easy friendship.

The girl - fun loving, charming, intelligent, sometimes careful to the point of extremely cautionary, and yet at other times playful and teasing soon opens up to him. With emotional attraction comes physical attraction and more often than not, vice versa. Come September and he is in love. The big 'L'.
The boy thought he knew everything about girls and relationships. She proved him wrong. There were more surprises in a day with her than an entire month with most people. She showed him things he didn't think were possible. The passion they shared was at a height unparalleled hence, and unmatched since.

Yet, one day the relationship ended as abruptly as it had started. For years he pines for the same emotional and physical torrent he went through - stumbling from one relationship to another, sometimes surprised, but mostly disappointed. Other relationships and priorities took his time and attention now. Yet he knew that one day she will come back, something will bring you people back together.

It happened. There were a few hiccups in the beginning, and slight moments of embarrassment, but slowly it happened. The passion is unbelievable, the emotional storm even greater. This is what he was missing for so many days! Such long years had he waited for this to happen! The conversations, the long drives, the frantic moments of passion and the quiet, tender moments of love - everything is so much better this time. But without so much as a preamble, this time too comes at an end. He is not as heartbroken as the first time round, but the abruptness of it all does leave a slight sour taste in his mouth. Yet he knows that he will look back at these times as one of the best he has ever had.

Moments continued

Love is of immense possibilities, immense intrigue. Everyday you find something new, some new permutations and combinations. "I think everybody is naughty". No person can be completely pious and clean in his heart and all that. If i see a pretty woman, I will definitely appreciate her, not that i would want to sleep with her. Being naughty keeps everything alive-you as a person, in your relationship with your partner...:P. It's not a question of balance. Because i really love and it's my lifeline, it's the ground where i can experiment with myself it's my need to take out time. love is not a compromise at all.


            Love is not about looking for conventional looks and running around trees kind of stupidity. In love you do your own thing, not affected by what the other one does. Love is a challenge which gives me scope to dig more into myself and know my limitations as a human-being. Something should be there to make me feel inadequate. Otherwise, you get stereotyped. I hate  when people say "Yeh admi acha kartha hai, isey yehi karne do". i.e. I hate Branding.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        I need someone who excites and unnerves me. I must be insecure to the extent that i should feel I'll make a fool of myself. Even if i fail in that, I shall be enriched. When in the present world love doesn't happen it is made.                                                        

Jawaharlal Nehru & Edwina Mountbatten Love Approved by Indian Government

Indian Government has flagged green signal to Hollywood film Indian Summer script of a proposed English film bringing Jawaharlal Nehru and Edwina Mountbatten relationship in spotlight.

The government of India has ordered that Intimate scenes between characters based on its first prime minister Jawaharlal Nehru and Edwina Mountbatten, the wife of Britain’s last Viceroy, be deleted from a new hollywood film of their romance.

Edwina was the wife of Britain’s last Viceroy, Louis Lord Mountbatten.

All foreign films shot in India must be approved by a vetting committee which screens the script to make sure “nothing detrimental to the image of India or the Indian people is shot or included in the film”.

Eminent writer and Niece of Jawaharlal Nehru, Nayantara Sahgal said, “I don’t know what to make of these reports (on government clearing the script on the condition that intimate scenes between Nehru and Edwina should be toned down). I have heard from Alex(von Tunzelmann on whose book the film is based) just a few days back and she told me that there is no script and nothing has been finalised.”

“I have read Alex’s book. She had met me also. It (the book) does not write on the relationship but says that there was one. She told me there is no script as such and no cast and director has been chosen. It is in the process of happening and it may happen next year,” Sahgal added.

Commenting on their relationship, Sahgal said, “anybody who claims that they had a sexual relationship would be conjecturing. What they had was a long and lasting relationship of love and friendship. It was a rare relationship based on meeting of minds. They had respect and admiration for each other.”

The film, which is due for release in 2011, is based on Alex Von Tunzelmann’s book Indian Summer, The Secret History of the End of Empire, which tells the story of Nehru and Lady Mountbatten’s “intense and clandestine love affair” during the Mountbattens’ return to India for the handover and partition in 1947.

The film is expected to be shot on location in Punjab, Jammu and Kashmir and the capital Delhi.

IRRFAN KHAN is leading the race to play CATE BLANCHETT’s lover in this period movie.

As per the reports, Hugh Grant will play Blanchett’s husband, Lord Louis Mountbatten, in the film, scheduled for release in 2011.

One Indian film producer said the film’s chances of being shot in India will eventually depend on how sensitively the director Joe Wright portrays the founder of the Nehru-Gandhi dynasty.

Moments

                        Great moments roll back in the mind like a flashback bringing you immense joy and also reminding  you that those wonderful things . no wonder people enjoy that time to the hilt , stashing away those moments in their memory bank and live with them forever.
         Those were truly rewarding moments inspiring others to follow the same .path of success of heart warming  ,heart rending too life which is filled with hilarious moments and touching episodes and anything and everything that capture the rhythm and heart-beat and spirit of yourself in the temple of love.
          it is an existential dilemma that has haunted man since time immemorial "god or no god " . its humanness alone that counts.
          Some people say we care of anything in love but even many of those people do not practice what they say they seldom care for a co-partner's suffering.
         Some say there is no love at all ! but they do not provide reason for the ways things unfold them in the relations. i just remained insensitive and even indifferent to love . for me love meant to be the happiness offered to you . but sometimes i think or strongly feel that i need to rethink.

Rejuvenation

There 's no denying it . writing is a form of betrayal.when you write about something , you can no longer keep it to your self.so be it .

                Here i am going to share a special discovery or you can say some of my thoughts which i liked to find something of myself.i.e. the purpose of this blog  is to trap my mind into doing its own thinking. this is my memory and my aspiration ; the link between my present and past you can say it as a great thing as a battle . it is the precious life-blood and treasure of the purpose to a life beyond life . it will be the best friend of mine today and forever .it may arouse me, terrify me, teach me, comfort me, open its heart to me as a brother.

               The additional peace of mind is well worth than the cost and you can say this blog is the vision ( the art of seeing the invisible). it is like a memory ( a child walking along a seashore you can never tell what small pebble it will pick up and store away among its treasured things.) without this i will be like a bird without wings.





                  so little time, so much to do
                  to make the world much better
                  first make a better you,
                  success will come wherever you are,
                  do not fear to do or dare
                  why search for love and laughter??
                  you can find it anywhere..!!